Been thinking about the whole "bisexuals are privileged because they can be STRAIGHT PASSING" and, on top of the many layers of bigotry and wrongness in that idea...
...in the heteronormie world that I interact with, it's considered a given that of course women are nagging harpies, of course men are lazy pigs, of course everyone hates their selfish bratty kids, why in bloody hell would anyone WANT to pass for THAT?
"I march to my own beat" says person who dresses conventionally, participates in socially acceptable hobbies, holds mainstream beliefs, and befriends/dates exclusively self-identified normal people.