I quit Tumblr a while back, and now it's the end of pride month and I have no idea what hateful, exclusionary shit the online queer community has concocted this year.
Either I'm losing my patience with the constant usage of gay where the more applicable word is queer, or an awful lot of people are getting into the habit of using it to refer to all of us.
I know the "queer woman who grows vegetables and knits and owns way too many power tools" stereotype (cough cough), is there an equivalent one for queer men?
Is it just the "sleeps around and hates commitment one"? Are they assumed to do nothing but be horny until they die?
"Being queer is central to this character" and "being queer is a significant but not primary aspect of this character" and "this character just happens to be queer" are all equally good ways of making a queer character.
Mainstream US queer culture is a pathetic shadow of what queer culture is, having become all about cattiness, consumerism, and incompetence, send tweet.
I like my men the way I like my women: behaving and presenting in a way that makes them happy, because they've examined their gender in detail and decided to do their own thing rather than follow societal expectations.
I just finished reading a queer dictionary, and I can't tell if mainstream queer culture has become deeply catty and materialistic in the last ten years, or if the author is just Like That.
Is me, a genderqueer person who is both a man and a woman, going to Pride in a full ballgown or three piece suit a fetish or an acceptable expression of my queerness?
What if I said that I literally have a sex thing for formal wear?