My observation, from having lived in this hellhole of a failed state for a quarter century, is that the average Yankee is kinda an asshole.
If I make a minor request (like "please stop touching me" or "don't call me by that nickname"), not only will people not accommodate me, they'll go out of their way to do the thing that bothers me. If I express discomfort with something such as loud noises or a certain turn of phrase, they'll make sure to do the thing as often as possible to make me flinch. And don't even get me started on what people will say and do when they learn I'm disabled...
These people will then, almost universally, insist that they are Good People who Care About Others, and yell at me if I disagree on that point.
If I make a minor request (like "please stop touching me" or "don't call me by that nickname"), not only will people not accommodate me, they'll go out of their way to do the thing that bothers me. If I express discomfort with something such as loud noises or a certain turn of phrase, they'll make sure to do the thing as often as possible to make me flinch. And don't even get me started on what people will say and do when they learn I'm disabled...
These people will then, almost universally, insist that they are Good People who Care About Others, and yell at me if I disagree on that point.
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