Harm reduction and stuff like that

[palominocorn]

Yes, yes, marriage is assimilation and blah blah blah, but I live in the here and now and not some sort of socialist utopian future, and I would like to be able to access my partner's health insurance and keep custody of my kids and not have my parents make my medical decisions, so please don't let the government annul my marriage on the basis of us being a pair of queer weirdos.