I talked about this with my mom (she knows I'm a confirmed bachelor, but shares with me information that might be useful for my friends, too) and no matter how good the marriage, it's always a good idea to have a prenuptial agreement signed. A healthy relationship should be able to cope with an inquiry into potential risks and the independent lives of people involved, and it'll be one less thing on your mind if you ever need to get a divorce.
Don't worry, it's fine. I talked about this with a lot of people and a shocking number of them didn't.
Actual conversation: Coworker: (complaining about how her husband is making no money so she's paying the mortgage; her other comments made it clear that he was also abusive) Me: "Get a divorce, your prenup should have handled this case." Coworker: "I didn't get a prenup because I thought that he would be supporting me and it would be in my best interests not to get one!" Me: "..."
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Actual conversation:
Coworker: (complaining about how her husband is making no money so she's paying the mortgage; her other comments made it clear that he was also abusive)
Me: "Get a divorce, your prenup should have handled this case."
Coworker: "I didn't get a prenup because I thought that he would be supporting me and it would be in my best interests not to get one!"
Me: "..."