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[palominocorn]

When I let people assume I was binary trans, they used the correct binary pronouns almost all the time, and it was generally understood that using the other binary set was a jerk move.

Now that I'm openly genderqueer and use rotating he/she, even the most progressive self-proclaimed allies treat me as cis, and people will say things like "I'm misgendering you because it makes me feel better as a feminist" to my face.