BRB, going to buy cane so I can shake it at clouds

[palominocorn]

But what does the aromantic community mean when they say "prioritize your friends as much as your partner(s)"? Because all I'm getting from those vague posts is the same old "your queer, neurodivergent butt is Doing Relationships Wrong" and it's kind of exhausting to get that from my own people when I could get it from the general public for like 80% less guilt.

(I mean, I don't have friends, but my partner, unlike me, did not have the "friendship" module of their brain broken in childhood, so they do.)