Someone down the line instilled in society the collective belief that "neurodivergent people are utterly incapable of being good parents" which... obviously bad!
But then some part of the ND community went ahead and fought back with "neurodiversity does not affect our ability to be parents whatsoever, so, shut it!"
Which means that there are ND people out there abusing their kids and then saying that nothing could or should be done about it because they're depressed so it's okay.